“Yes I do” by Anty Kaomi

“Yes I do” to me is the greatest answer of life and it must fascinate you to know that it doesn’t start the first time it is said that it comes through rigorous journey of patience, compromise, commitment and understanding and fight to mention but a few of these.

For a relationship to be successful on the part of a woman and leads to that very answer every woman just cannot wait to give, requires self-discipline and understanding from both sides.

Healthy relationship usually leads to the alter and in this kind of relationship you find gems such as self- love, trust, understanding, commitment, self- sacrifice and honesty, even when it hurts.

Honesty implies been able to tell the truth even when it hurts and you must be ready to heal wound created.

Starting and keeping a healthy relationship begins by falling in love. How do you know you are in love? Believe me the feelings varies based on personality, but one common features to all is feeling incomplete, in secure and an inward yearning that cannot be filled or quench.

Healthy relationships developed from true friendship and not when one begins a relationship for the purpose of sex, money, security, desperation or even a need to feel among.

A successful relationship is ability to understand your man and anticipate his next move helps you to understand how healthy the relationship is and the likelihood that you may give that big answer. Anticipation of your man’s move helps you understand his morals and when he starts losing interest…..

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