February 3, 2026
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How To Handle A Cheating Husband: My Readers Response

Question 1
Ma, I married last year and ve been cheating on my spouse because my man doesn’t last in bed, I don’t cum at all but whenever am with other men, I cummed countlessly, ma, what should I do?

My Response
Uhmm!! Cheating on him is not the best thing, kindly discuss this with him, advise him to seek medical attention, peradventure, your man is medically fit, teach him how to satisfy you because cheating on him is not an option at all, read books or check how your man can satisfy you in bed on YouTube, learn it and teach your man. God bless you

Question 2
Ma, my boyfriend has been cheating on me, whenever I confront him about it, he beat me up, what should I do ma?

My response
My beautiful sister, gone are the days when love is blind, thank God, it is just a relationship, my dear, this relationship is not healthy and for your mental health, kindly walk up to a mirror, look into the mirror, call your name three times and say I will not die because of toxic relationship and kindly take a bold step and quit the relationship.

Question 3
Gud Morning ma’am

Been having some little headache abt my Spouse{bf}

It make me feels as if he’s cheating on me

An i’m scared of Loosing him

We have been together for 2 yrs plus now

He’s not a rich guy but i never bother him of anything or use my activities to disturb him and he doesn’t call me or maybe he can call once in two months and
I LOVE HIM

That’s it ma’am

My response
My love, communication is a basic bedrock of a healthy relationship, my dear, this guy is not serious, please quit.

Question 4
My wife is cheating on me, I heard she’s sleeping with my neighbor but she claimed that she’s settling the rift between my neighbor and his wife but I don’t believe her, how can my wife be in my neighbor’s house till 9pm, I can’t take it anymore, what can I do?

My response
Sir, with due respect, since it is just a mere saying, there is no valid evidence to prove it, I will advise, you warn your wife to stay away from your neighbor and his wife since their closeness is affecting you emotionally, don’t fight your neighbor but warn your wife to keep off.

Question 5
Ma, am married to a cheating husband, He sleeps with anything under the skirt including our housemaid, I caught him with my best friend, my kid sister and neighbor’s wife, aside his cheating attitude, he beat me uncontrollable, this will be the fifth time, I will leave his house and now, he came with his kinsmen to beg me, that his now a change person. Ma, presently am scared and confused, I don’t know what to do?

My response
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